when men were boys #latepost#

Wednesday  is one of those days I wish I could get more hours In between the hours of 4 and 6,That's because I have to be in church by six,I wake in  the morning knowing that by six o'clock I have to be somewhere, but no  matter How hard I try I am never ready,I still rush out when its past six

Still about that boy :(

Where Did I stop?
OK so we started texting,I get instant reply everytIme I sent a text,he had so much enthusiasm about meeting me,he told me How much he liked my career etc. one morning I got a good morning text asking how my night was and trying to find out what I was up to,I replied and that was it,something has happened to my instant reply,I waited 10mins,30,1hour,2Hours,4hours and then the whole day ,so I called him,to check if he was hit by a trailer (only on that condition should he not reply me) he picked up and apologized for not replying bla bla bla, said he was hanging out and mentioned us hanging out soon, said he appreciates that I called, so I hung up and thought that was the  end of our long-distance texting, but my dear that was the beginning :( he dint text or call, kept liking my pictures on instagram though,and then after a while he stopped :(  and then I started wondering watsup?, na jeje I sidown before he talk say e wan see me o,after about 3 days he replied the Hey" I sent to him on watsapp, talked about being busy and all and that was it again, and then finally my friend said I should send a "start to finish" message,so if he replies with a "start to finish" also then amma free him,and guess what? He Did,so he is free now,but what am wondering is,why Did he start up something in the first place? Plus I just wanted to be a friend nothing more,anyways I have come to the conclusion that he has found another Muse so I dedicate my version of Bruno Mars' "When I was your man" to him......
     
It all just sounds like ooooohhhhh......
Mmm ,too young too dumb to realize
That I should have agreed to see you
And  held your hand
Should've gave you all my hours
When I had the chance
To go with you to every party
Co's all you wanted to do was hookup
Now my Bobo is dancing
But he is dancing with another girl.: (

There is this boy.........

Yes there is this boy,whose name cannot b mentioned,well for safety's sake I won't,the boy hasn't been talking to me:'( and am here with the gist so you guys can help me out,tell me if i Should just breathe or keep worrying,or call or ignore or anything.
      OK let me say the story from the beginning,once upon a time,I happened to follow somebody(a guy,the guy),why I followed Him I still can't tell,maybe I just saw a pic I liked or so,I just can't remember, but it was an innocent follow button I clicked o,anyways I got something close to an instant follow back, which I don't even see as anything Cos like I said It was innocent,things went on normally Without special attention to anyone. After about a few weeks or months,I went for an occasion and I saw someone who looks very much like him(it even took me time to figure out who the person was looking like)i later discovered the person is a close relation of his, well that's how he became a part of my subconscious,I then started Spying On him and smiled everytime he liked or commented on my pics on instagram, I liked his pics also in return,soon I Started looking up to seeing his likes on my page,i wasn't looking forward to meet or talk to him,I was quite fine With seeing him on instagram, so I did not even have any reason to fantasize.
One midnight as I was working On my sewing I got a notification on instagram, it's midnight so I took my time,read it like 2 hours later,lo and behold. It was from my supposed INSTAGRAM CRUSH and guess what? He wanted to meet me,I smiled to myself,and then replied the Mention,I gave my no and then In a bit we were chatting on whatsapp,and then moved to phone calls,he wanted to see me as soon as he could,he asked me to come to his house but I declined, he got me wondering, What's on his mind,from nowhere (sorry from instagram ) this guy just popped up and keeps saying he needs to see me soon, sounds more like he was asked to bring someone for rituals ASAP......... lol that was a joke,I wasn't that scared but,this guy is someone I never thought of meeting, you know it's a different thing when you have a crush on someone and you are looking Forward to meet the person,this one just got the crush title from liking my pictures on instagram.
   We moved from watsapp to texting,yes Cos sumtimes my phone gets cranky and the network too sometimes develops cramps,just so nothing comes between me and my new friend,we stuck to texting. Sadly this din't last for long :( .............to be continued.

To whom much is given,much is also expected

This last month has been a great one,besides the fact that i had to do a lot of work in it,i also learnt a lot from it,i understood what my ceramics lecturer said that "to whom much is given,much is also expected". so what happens when we give much and expect much,then don't get much?

BACK AND BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its 2:30am, just me and my laptop awake,as usual i do stuff on the Internet,try to catch up with my friends on skype,facebook send mails etc. while doing all these i just i kept wondering if i should go on my blog, PS: i wonder all the time am logged on to my computer. Even though i draft off-line, i never get to publish, due to so many circumstances in my control( i just chose not to control it) anyways i i finally opened it,cleaned the cobwebs dusted,swept and mopped d floor, taaaadaaa ......................

Diaries of a workaholic 2

The saying "what won't kill you would make u stronger" is so tru,at the beginning of this week I took a book to write all that I had to make and do this week,it was a lot,this same week is the week I planned to take my Thursday to Sunday off dress making and have a great weekend,then I thought to myself how is it possible I do all this in 3 days of which Monday was out,I went fabric shopping and had my hair locked,so am left with 2 days.
I picked my phone to call my tailor,to tell her we have a lot to do this week, she has to be here early and be fast about work,just guess her response.........."am not feeling too well o,I want to go to the hospital,maybe I will be fine tomorrow" seriously? Am so quick to activate work mode so I got on the machine and work began,day then night but with the hope that madam "am not well" will be here tomorrow,next day I picked my phone to call her again,she dint pick up,mins later she sent a text "am restless can't make it" I just laughed,does this girl know what restless means? Anyways I gave up on her and faced my work,I sewed from morning to evening,then go to school to draft patterns till 9pm get back and keep sewing.
Thursday came,still sewing,figured my friend whom I was supposed to have the weekend with couldn't make it to Nigeria,it was a sad one but then I have a lot to do,would I have had the time to spare? Am I supposed to be happy or sad? I really looked forward to this weekend,and now I just think it dint happen cause I had a lot to do,you know how things happen so that some other things can happen,on the other end am telling my friend to try see the bright side of the failed trip,he asked if I can see it and I said "no" it wasn't until now that I realized that I could see the bright side,maybe if he came some of my clients would have killed me by now.
It's Saturday evening,I managed to make sure everyone is happy,my clients my friend and me.thats the joy of working.
PS: am prepared to work without my tailor nxt week.
Doughyeen:)

Diaries of a workaholic

The saying "what won't kill you would make u stronger" is so tru,at the beginning of this week I took a book to write all that I had to make and do this week,it was a lot,this same week is the week I planned to take my Thursday to Sunday off dress making and have a great weekend,then I thought to myself how is it possible I do all this in 3 days of which Monday was out,I went fabric shopping and had my hair locked,so am left with 2 days.
I picked my phone to call my tailor,to tell her we have a lot to do this week, she has to be here early and be fast about work,just guess her response.........."am not feeling too well o,I want to go to the hospital,maybe I will be fine tomorrow" seriously? Am so quick to activate work mode so I got on the machine and work began,day then night but with the hope that madam "am not well" will be here tomorrow,next day I picked my phone to call her again,she dint pick up,mins later she sent a text "am restless can't make it" I just laughed,does this girl know what restless means? Anyways I gave up on her and faced my work,I sewed from morning to evening,then go to school to draft patterns till 9pm get back and keep sewing.
Thursday came,still sewing,figured my friend whom I was supposed to have the weekend with couldn't make it to Nigeria,it was a sad one but then I have a lot to do,would I have had the time to spare? Am I supposed to be happy or sad? I really looked forward to this weekend,and now I just think it dint happen cause I had a lot to do,you know how things happen so that some other things can happen,on the other end am telling my friend to try see the bright side of the failed trip,he asked if I can see it and I said "no" it wasn't until now that I realized that I could see the bright side,maybe if he came some of my clients would have killed me by now.
It's Saturday evening,I managed to make sure everyone is happy,my clients my friend and me.thats the joy of working.
PS: am prepared to work without my tailor nxt week.
Doughyeen:)

Lamentations (Iba Housing Estate)

I have hardly taken half of my breakfast when I heard a familiar voice shouting "wash your toilet,clean your bathroom,the man is still around" this sent me on a serious flash back,this is where I went to secondary school,I lived here for only six years of my life,the voice I heard was that of the man that hawks toilet cleaning stuff in the estate,he is still selling on a Hawking scale(after over 7years) its really sad. I remember seeing the children I buy roasted fish and pepper from at the bus-stop,the have grown but still sell d same stuff,same size of tray,same quantity of fish.what happened to GROWTH?,what went wrong with MOVEMENT? just made me wonder if anything or anybody changed since I left,besides seeing small girls I used to know with either pregnancy or babies,I think there is no change,pple look the same way,streets same,shops same.then I thought to myself if I was still here would I b without change too? would I have a baby by now?would fashion mean going to learn work by the roadside? Would I even have a dream? I think the problem is that they get too comfortable where they are and forget it can be better,they think less of tomorrow and they live each day as it comes. The moment they start thinking,actions would come in and change would b celebrated.

Diaries of a workaholic 1

Well am not saying am a workaholic but If that's what u call someone who is always working then I think I pass,I like to work,ok first this is what I do,I am a student designer,I make clothes for people and I love doing what I do,I combine reading industrial design with practicing fashion design,industrial design consists of fashion,ceramics and textile.
With all this I rarely have time for family and friends,I sometimes spend the whole 24hrs in the studio,It was stressful but I loved it,pple admired me for always working and encourage me to keep it up.
Recently my schl went on break n they have refused to resume,I am enjoying it cos I get to do my PP without thinking of school work,I got my tailor to resume work,so I did less work,this time I had made me realize something ,which is that I have a lot of friends whom I rarely spend time with so they have gotten used to living without me and now AM LONELY,yes I am,am here sitted, stuck in my hostel with my best pals(my phone and laptop) I can't think of who to call and hang out with,I miss Nkiru so much,I miss the guys I play n hang out with cos the treat me like one of them,I miss having people around me.got to  hang out for an hour with Yinka and Banky,but then I was back to my lonely world,I seriously need a playmate,I need my friends back,I need school to resume,I just need something other than fashion in my life,I need fun,I need adventure,I need you,yes u rescue me ASAP!

my dreadful journey

            Hmmm, in this 3 months of my hair what eyes have seen mouth cannot say o, but i will try to make tongue co operate with  teeth and say something. 1^st sad thing that happened was that i left GH, as y’all know i started my hair there with the best “LEGEND LOCKS”, so getting someone or a place to wear their shoes is the jamb i have been writing since o, and i still have not passed, in my search for a good loctician  i met true love, someone directed me to creative barbers at surulere, that was where i met that so called love o.

There is something to be thankfull for in 2012

Here we are at the end of the year, the end of the year which is a time to take stock, a time to recall, a time to look back, a time to plan for a better next year. I get to do a lot of thinking,so one day, sited @ the back seat in the car back in Ghana, we drove past a house that got burnt a night before and my aunt said a loud prayer for the family that lost their house to the fire, and then my mind traveled and i thought about us, why doesn’t our own houses burn, why don’t we get involved in accidents even as we travel every day, i ended up with so many “why” and then my conclusion is that there is so much to be thankful for.

love someone this christmas :)

Its Christmas again yaaaaaay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 Love, fellowship and togetherness make the Christmas season all the more special. Christmas also means spreading the warmth of our heart into the lives of others and bringing in joy and cheers. So this Christmas, let special Christmas sms messages show how much you cherish the presence of your loved ones in your life. Christmas is the biggest festival for mankind. 

              Every year December millions of people celebrate the birthday of Jesus Christ as Christmas. Jesus Christ is the most influential person ever lived in this world. His life has changed the way of life in this world and they way people think about life. Nations conducted war on his teachings and millions of people sacrificed their life to protect his principles. As normal Christmas has become the biggest festival of this world with millions people celebrating it with Christmas carols, Christmas party and Exchanging Christmas messages each other. With the right merry Christmas wishes, you will be able to express your heart warming holiday greetings for family and loved ones. It’s never too late to think about Christmas! Even though there are still a couple of days to go before Christmas, you can start finding the right and perfect messages for your loved ones, whether it will be used for Christmas gift notes or as Christmas card messages.

              Christmas comes with holiday, you get time to take a break off work and school, this is why i think you should dedicate this Christmas to showing love, most people show love to the less privileged which is cute, but this Christmas i want you to show love to the most important people in you life, spend time with your spouse, spend time with your friends, spend time with your family, the concept of the birth of Jesus is love, for God so loved us. So show love this Christmas, go to the beach, have a grill party, go to the park, take pictures just have fun with them, make this Christmas memorable for them.

So am waiting on which one of you would show me love. *wink*

farewell to ghana

28/11/12
First of all i think i need a "how to prepare when traveling" handbook,cos i just always don't know how to start,then a day before my flight i would start remembering things to do,start rushing and end up with headache.
Any ways i think am trying this time around @least i started writing this a week to when am leaving,so am preparing :D so that is how i would leave GH o,chai,i sure would miss this place.
30/11/12

children of today

 



what do we call this?
Do you see anything wrong with a child of this age dancing like this?
Is it just tallent?
Does this tell a bit of what her future would look like?
What would u do if you notice your daughter or younger sis dancing like this?
Comments please

shit about social network

I really need to know if its just me that have a few problems with some category of people when it comes to social networking,starting from bbm to facebook and even twitter.

facebook is the most annoying,some people are just there waiting for u to come on line,after sending u a message containing the same thing like 20 times and you don't reply they still wait for u to make a post or comment on anyone's status,the moment u do that,u gt a message once again saying the same thing. how long does it take for some people to know you are ignoring them on purpose,they keep interrupting me,some people have a chat that goes like this

sleeping open eye

up @ 1:49, am awake for a reason tho,teaching myself some things via Internet speaking of that God bless Google,life would av been so miserable without sites like that,my bible says "with God all things are possible" obviously God sent google. 

being awake at this time just made me remember some sleeping open eye moments i had back when i was younger,cant remember all but i would share the ones i can.........you know those situation whereby

my dreadful journey

i started a dreadful journey about a month ago,yes a dreadful journey i locked my hair,i took a step closer to asa,dakore n most especially handsome uti, i must tell u its not been a funny journey,i had to cut my hair n start from the scratch,i spent a lot of money to look like those gentle men n women on the streets of accra i bet yu dont want to look like them. 


i never thought it would b this stressful,btw my parents dont kno their daughter now has "dada" on her head i know God would see me through the unveiling process  but seriously its not what the society thinks it is,dreadlocks are very beautiful when well groomed,its 100% natural,your hair gets a chance to breathe well,there is no chemical chocking the hair,even this chemicals called relaxer does more harm than good to the human hair.i dint say u should stop retouching o,am just giving u tips.


Anyways back to my hair,ryt now my locks are averagely 3" long which is like d most disgusting stage,i cant pack it together,i cant make cornrow,its not so short that it beautifully stays on the head n people will appreciate instead it dangles in a not uniform  way n makes me look crazy.
                   
                     me before i locked my hair

                                  

                                   

                                    present me with my 3" locks

                     
                            future me :)

see u guys later with updates on my hair prob it wld b 4" next week:)

emi ni blogger

 Hi everyone welcome to my "dry about to b wet" blog here we wld forever b close to eachother,no part of me goes out of ur sight.
anyways i got a sign this blog is going to b a nice ride wive me did i hear u say wot's the sign? ok i will tell u ;;;;;;;;;;;;; i burnt the porridge i was cooking :D dats a good one ryt? 

 i don't gossip so dont expect latest gossips on my blog i share news n rumour tho:|


my blog cant b complete without fashion tips do's n dont's style tips etc n some funny stuffs i come across. sit back n enjoy this ride with me EMI NI BLOGGER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!